26.Mar.2010 Passion, Romance
I’m of the belief that erotic passion can last. It all depends on definition. I think passion can be similar to libido, an internal drive and an external response. Sex drive and sexual desire, passion drive and passionate response. The passionate drive changes the more we are with the same person, but we can rekindle [...]
24.Feb.2010 Love and Lust
A therapist consulted with me recently concerning a married female client who was turned on by a much younger man. Often when this occurs people mistakenly believe they can’t be in love with their spouse any longer if they are in lust with another.
Lust and love, to different parts of the brain and not always [...]
06.Feb.2010 Snow and Sex
I can barely see the building 1/2 block away from my window the snow is obliterating my view. It is glorious, mainly because I’m working from home today. Will warm up the stew I cooked yesterday and write some erotica for my Erotic Literary Salon later today.
If there were a man in my life I [...]
27.Dec.2009 ESTHER PEREL – MATING IN CAPTIVITY, PASSION, con’t.
HOW TO CREATE PASSION, CON’T. Now that you realize if you want to see a change you must create that change, be that change, take those words into action. Have fun with it, see what kinds of reactions you get, but have no expectations in terms of kinds of responses for that would conflict with [...]
26.Dec.2009 WHERE TO FIND PERSONAL SCENES TO CREATE INNER JUICINESS, PASSION, con’t.
HOW TO CREATE PASSION, CON’T. It is those everyday events our partner partakes in, which turn us on that need our attention. I recall watching my son’s father cradling him one day, wow! did that do it for me. I was raised at a time where it was rare for a man to care for [...]
WOMEN, RESPONSIVE LIBIDOS, AND PASSION
HOW TO CREATE PASSION, CON’T. In a sexless relating-ship your partner would probably not passionately arouse you and where does that leave you? Still wanting passion. So if you are still reading this thread you might be hooked. Wanting to create passion, just to see if it can be done, perhaps just to prove me [...]
25.Dec.2009 FEMALE SEXUAL RESPONSE/WOMEN’S SEXUAL DISORDER/DYSFUNCTION – ROSEMARY BASSON, PASSION, con’t.
HOW TO CREATE PASSION, CON’T. Relating-ship was my last focus, actually rant, the issue of cell phones is really getting out of hand. So I veered off to the left for a moment, sorry.
Back to yesterday’s exercise and at this point your thinking, why would I want to give of myself when my partner [...]
24.Dec.2009 DATING YOUR PARTNER, PASSION, con’t.
HOW TO RE/CREATE PASSION, CON’T. Expectations I think can be a major culprit in loss of passion. I keep wanting to throw expectations out the window, they get in the way of so many negative feelings in life. “If I didn’t expect my partner to bring home flowers every day, then when he missed a [...]
23.Dec.2009 BIRTHDAYS, FLOWERS, LOVE MAKING, PASSION, con’t.
HOW TO CREATE PASSION, CON’T. If you passed the dating stage and committed to a long term relating-ship (I do prefer to use this word as a verb since a I think a person should always be in the act of relating otherwise stagnant.) and expectations are a part of your mind-set, here are a [...]
22.Dec.2009 PASSION: INTENSE SEXUAL LOVE, con’t.
How to re/create passion for sex, con’t. In yesterday’s post I suggested trying to recreate passion on your own, prior to consulting a sex therapist. If you follow some of the steps I’m suggesting but you still feel it is not working for you, you can aways set up a consultation with me. We can [...]