Archive for the "Personal" Category

09.May.2010 Happy Mother’s Day

It is wonderful to be able to celebrate Mother’s Day with my Chosen Mom. A women my biological mother introduced me to several years before she died. I thank my Mom daily for this introduction and now Frances and I live together part of the year.
Adopting a Mother benefits all. I am learning to age [...]

06.May.2010 Talking about sex with your partner – Austrian’s

Having the conversation – with your sex partner. Cultural differences were evident when Marty Klein, Sex Therapist extraordinaire was working in Austria. Memories of my upbringing. Both my parents were Austrian, although I was born and raised in the US.
The word sex was never spoken in my household and I suspect it was not a [...]

28.Mar.2010 Jim Thorpe Burlesque Contest

Wonderful contest held last night, just loved watching women really enjoy expressing themselves with bodies of all shapes and sizes. The audience, approx. 1/2 women perhaps more, were most supportive with their voices and applause.
Interesting to hear the comments in the roundtable discussion I facilitated. Grown women still ashamed, protective of their sexuality when it [...]

20.Mar.2010 Sex Addiction Assessment Test – Important Information

If you disclose on any psychological assessment test that you have performed any acts against the law, eg. sex with minor, your therapist by law has to report you. If you fill out forms on the Internet to find out if you are an addict the same applies. Be aware.

27.Feb.2010 How to Tolerate your Marriage by Having an Affair ” Life is short. Have an affair.

This was the headline of a two page article/advertisement for a website catering to married people interested in having affairs. They offered 6 pointers.
1 – seek out online dating service catering to married people (Of course they don’t mention on the front page this is an add for the site they are promoting and the [...]

17.Feb.2010 House Cleaning of Self-help sex books – Sale

I own far more self-help sex books than my shelves can accommodate. I read them to get some idea what my clients are learning, but do not need to access again for my work.
If there is a specific title or sub-topic you are interested in learning about, send me a request. I shall price according [...]

14.Feb.2010 Happy Valentine’s Day

Do something special for yourself. Express your love for yourself, without going out to purchase something new. If you have a partner/s do the same, but please don’t forget yourself first.
I am of the belief no one else will love you if you don’t love yourself first.

11.Feb.2010 The Mainstreaming of Erotic Words

Yesterday an article was written about The Erotic Literary Salon I created several years ago. I developed this event during a lull in my dissertation writing and after realizing women were feeling awkward using different forms of erotica as stimulants.
The Salon is a big hit in Philadelphia and the blog can be found at the [...]

07.Feb.2010 Fairmont Park, Philadelphia, the erotic nature of nature

Walked today through the largest urban park in the United States, perhaps world. It was a magnificent day, a winter wonderland coated with snow, icicles, the Canadian Geese that forgot to migrate, baby birds (sorry not a birder, no name, but tiny and chubby). I walked in silence, few people, just the sounds of winter [...]

06.Feb.2010 Snow and Sex

I can barely see the building 1/2 block away from my window the snow is obliterating my view. It is glorious, mainly because I’m working from home today. Will warm up the stew I cooked yesterday and write some erotica for my Erotic Literary Salon later today.
If there were a man in my life I [...]