25.Jul.2010 How to enjoy a Low Sexual Desire, Low Libido

Lying in my lover’s arms this morning waiting forever for the switch to turn on. You know that feeling of sexual desire that comes from within, a signal that says you are ready. Ready to take the sexplay to another level.

Do I need or even want a pill to change that ‘forever’ lack of feeling? Well I must admit it would make life easier. But is lovemaking about being easy, or more about having fun? Experimenting, taking longer for certain, rarely quickies these days. What I do have recently is long, luxuriating times spent cuddling, playing, talking, stroking, and enjoying the slow spin of my libido.

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  • Jay says:

    Susana: As I age, one of the things that I have learned to enjoy is the slowness of most of my lovemaking these days. Yes, there are still times when I am able to enjoy the unbridled, supercharged sex of my younger days, but that is rare. But I have come to love the slow, sensual movement of these days. Cuddling, slow touching and rubbing, kissing-it is all wonderful, and it has expanded my definition of “foreplay” and made me aware of more sexual spots on my body and on the body of my lovers. I love the use of the word “luxuriating” in your post. That is exactly what it is, and it feels so good and lasts so long.

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