I often hear self-diagnosed low sexual desire from women who’s partners feel they are not getting enough sex. Enough sex is an extremely subjective number, and mismatched libidos seems to be a common complaint from couples.
Sometimes these mismatchings stem from something other than unequal sexual drives. Resentment. The following article by Charlie Glickman, Good Vibration’s sexual educator discusses this feeling and how it can impact sexuality.
http://www.charlieglickman.com/2010/07/resentment-the-biggest-relationship-killer/
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For more information on this workshop to be held this weekend, July 30-August 1 in Philadelphia visit http://www.thesensuallife.com/courses/aphrodite-rising/
2 more spaces available.
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I attended the grand opening of Screw Smart http://www.screwsmartly.com/ Located in West Philadelphia. Great place to get sex ed for Lesbians.
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Lying in my lover’s arms this morning waiting forever for the switch to turn on. You know that feeling of sexual desire that comes from within, a signal that says you are ready. Ready to take the sexplay to another level.
Do I need or even want a pill to change that ‘forever’ lack of feeling? Well I must admit it would make life easier. But is lovemaking about being easy, or more about having fun? Experimenting, taking longer for certain, rarely quickies these days. What I do have recently is long, luxuriating times spent cuddling, playing, talking, stroking, and enjoying the slow spin of my libido.
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I believe that sexual orientation is fluid, that if we weren’t so focused on how other’s feel, we would allow ourselves to be smitten by people’s personality, their minds.
http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2010/07/12/research-suggests-late-blooming-lesbians-may-change-sexual-orientation/
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My dissertation was on the use of explicit sex videos as a fillip to spark a women’s libido. Interesting, that many women got turned on not only by the video itself, but by their partner’s being turned on.
So even if you don’t like porn, but your partner does, view it together. You can just focus on your partner and not the film and you will both be turned on.
http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/erotica/erika-lust-good-porn-0709101/
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Several men wrote or spoke with me personally concerning their experiences with virgins and the sexuality of younger women. It was quite obvious that it takes time to come into ones own sexually. I suspect if I spoke with women I would hear the same stories.
Sexual pleasure and pleasuring is not natural as some are lead to believe. There are techniques to learn, cues to follow, combined with chemistry and experience all make for a passionate sexual experience.
So it is not unusual for me to hear stories from men and women over 50 that sex is getting better.
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I always wondered how women felt about losing their virginity and the impact it had on their present sexual attitudes. Kate Monro is blogging about virginity and peoples experiences. This article talks all about losing one’s virginity.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/jul/18/virginity-project-blogging-sex
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The following abstract is from a recent study on why women make noises during orgasm. Personally I think sometimes women create noises as part of communication and some types of relating are positive and others negative. Also noises during orgasm can heighten the experience. Think this study was extremely narrow in scope.
http://www.unboundmedicine.com/medline/ebm/record/20480220/full_citation/Evi
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