The Erotic Literary Salon
A Verbal Sanctuary for Sexual Expression
Susana Mayer, PhD
August 20, 2025
Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
Thanks for reading! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.
The Salon was never meant to follow the rules. It’s here for what gets overlooked—honest words, complicated feelings, and the parts of ourselves that don’t fit neatly anywhere else.
This July and August, we keep at it. Saying the things that don’t usually get said. Sitting with what still lingers. Letting desire speak in whatever way it needs to.
Whether you’re sending stories or simply reading along—thank you. This space exists because of you.
With warmth and wonder, you are welcome.
What’s Inside This Month’s Newsletter
Create Freely—A Prompt if You Need It
Write whatever moves you. If you’d like a little inspiration, choose from one of the prompts below.
- A Summer of Rupture
During a heatwave, a couple’s routine breaks. Maybe a betrayal, revelation, or forgotten memory surfaces—how does the heat exacerbate what was always simmering? - The Invisible Ink
A character writes a love letter using invisible ink. Only years later, someone discovers it. What does it say, and why was it hidden? - Whispered Bargains
Two strangers make a quiet agreement in a dim corner: a word, a gesture, a dare. What are they trading, and how does the rest of the night unfold?Several wonderful submissions posted on website: https://susanamayer.com/nsfw-pieces/
Submit at: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Author Submissions: Share Your Work with The Salon
We invite published authors to contribute to The Erotic Literary Salon. Share excerpts from your books or smaller works such as essays, short stories, or poetry. Along with your submission, please include a short bio to introduce yourself to our readers. This is a chance to showcase your voice, connect with a curious and engaged audience, and promote your work.
Submit your work and bio here: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines
Featured Author: Merilyn Jacksonn
A dance critic, cultural writer, and book reviewer, primarily for The Philadelphia Inquirer from 1996 to 2020, Merilyn Jackson published more than 1100 articles on dance, theater, food, and Eastern European and Latin American culture in diverse publications such as The New York times, The Warsaw Voice, Pointe, Dance, and Dance Teacher magazines, and Broad Street Review. Currently, she writes regularly for Fjord Review.com, https://www.der-theaterverlag.de/tanz/ueber-tanz/. Her poetry is published in several print and online journals. Exquisite Corpse: feedblitz@mail.feedblitz.comhttps://bebarbar.com/?s=Merilyn+Jackson, https://www.amazon.com/Schuylkill-Valley-Journal-Spring-2017/dp/0997626429 http://columbiajournal.org/3-poems-by-merilyn-jackson/, https://www.cleavermagazine.com/oysters-by-merilyn-jackson/ Poiesis Review #6, Poetry Nook, vol.4; AZ State Poetry Society, Sandstone and other journals. Her poem Helpful Hints From the Chef de Cuisine won Honorable Mention in Arizona Authors Literary Contest.
Green Lover
Splattered,
the cucumber’s notched handle
lies at the baseboard
Mock-seminal juices
inebriate the wall.
Shudders undulate
through violated floor planks,
The green lover’s death –
my birth
To be continued: https://susanamayer.com/featured-author/
A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
Exquisite Corpse: A Collective Creation
The sketch above is an Exquisite Corpse drawing from the 1930s—created by Salvador Dalí, Gala Dalí, Valentin Hugo, and André Breton.
This collaborative exercise invites people to contribute without knowing exactly what others have added, resulting in something unexpected, layered, and often beautifully strange.
Now it’s your turn.
Submit up to five evocative words—sensual, strange, playful, poetic. Once enough submissions are gathered, a collaborative poem will be created and shared in a future newsletter.
We’re still a few words short of bringing this to life, so if you’ve been meaning to submit, now’s the time.
Exquisite Corpse Submission: https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse
Adult Sex Education Q&A
Q: I want to explore kink, but I fear it might scare off partners or feel too “out there.” How can I ease into it authentically?
A: Recognizing your curiosity is a powerful first step. Approach it as a conversation, not a demand. Try: “I’ve been reading about [specific kink] and find it intriguing—would you be open to talking about it?” You can frame it as exploration together, not pressure. Share an essay or poem on it before acts—creativity often opens doors. Let each step build trust. If a desire scares them or you, pause and question why—not to close off, but to understand. Consent and respect are erotic foundations.
Submit your question anonymously: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Read installments here: https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
Stiill in the process.
Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments.
Parts Too Provocative
The long history of erotic shame, one body part at a time
This section looks at how different parts of the male body have been seen as symbols of power, strength, attraction, or identity. Across time and place, cultures have chosen different features to focus on. Some were admired in art. Others were emphasized in clothing, grooming, or physical training. These choices tell us a lot about what each society expected from men—and what they found desirable.
Chest and Torso – Ancient Greece to Hollywood
Ancient Greece (~800 BCE–323 BCE); 19th–20th Century Western Culture
The male chest didn’t just show up in sculpture. It showed up in philosophy, in poetry, in cinema. In Greece, it was idealized—gods and athletes carved from marble. During the Renaissance, Michelangelo’s David carried that ideal into new centuries. And when Hollywood took over, the bare chest moved from temple pedestal to silver screen. It still hasn’t left.
continued:
Share your experiences with censorship. visit https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/.
Newsworthy Updates
Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives.
Reimagining the Speculum: A Gentler Design for Pelvic Exams
A long-overdue innovation is finally gaining traction: a redesigned speculum aimed at improving comfort during pelvic exams. The previous version, developed in 1845 by James Marion Sims, has remained virtually unchanged for nearly 180 years—despite widespread complaints about its cold, invasive, and often painful design. The new model replaces the outdated metal device with a smoother, quieter, and more ergonomic alternative, marking a shift toward trauma-informed, patient-centered care in gynecology.
Austria decriminalizes consensual BDSM practices
In June 2025, Austria officially decriminalized private, consensual BDSM activities between adults, removing it from criminal code provisions. Legal scholars celebrate it as a landmark for consent-positive law and personal autonomy—affirming that what consenting adults do behind closed doors is nobody else’s business.
New study shows audio erotica boosts intimacy and stress relief
A peer-reviewed study from PsyPost (June 12 2025) found that adults who listen to erotic audio regularly report higher overall intimacy and reduced stress levels, compared to control groups. Notably, those using audio during solo downtime described it as “mindfully arousing and restorative” .
Submit a newsworthy update or suggestion: susanamayer3@gmail.com.
Erotic Literature & Creative Inspirations
Looking for inspiration? Discover erotic literature and creative works that push boundaries and spark curiosity—from classic novels to contemporary internet gems.
This Month’s Pick
“Thank you to whomever invented the Sun Dress.”
Thank you to whomever invented the Sun Dress
a month ago · 1 like · Erotic Stories by Julian Sly
Have a favorite to share? Recommend books, essays, internet pieces, or standout works from Substack and Medium.
Title: [Book/Article/Work Name]
Author/Creator: [Author/Creator Name]
Curated Links: Discover and Share
Explore our curated list of sex-positive websites and resources that celebrate sexuality, creativity, and open expression. Have a favorite website, Substack, Medium piece, or Bluesky account to recommend? Share it with us!
Beducated
Website:
https://beducated.com
Why Explore It?
Beducated offers a wide range of self-paced video courses on everything from communication and boundaries to kink, tantra, and mindful masturbation. Whether you’re looking to explore something new or deepen what you already enjoy, it’s all there—real bodies, real voices, no shame.
What Makes It Different:
It’s like adult sex ed for grownups who want more than just “tips and tricks.” With inclusive content, expert instructors, and a calm, welcoming tone, Beducated turns learning about pleasure into something practical, accessible, and deeply personal.
SIECUS: Sex Ed for Social Change
Website:
https://siecus.org
Why Explore It?
SIECUS has been advocating for comprehensive sexuality education in the U.S. since 1964. Their site offers thoughtful policy updates, educational resources, and tools for understanding how sex ed connects to larger issues like healthcare, justice, and human rights.
What Makes It Different:
They don’t separate pleasure from politics. SIECUS takes a clear stand: access to accurate, inclusive sex ed is a social justice issue. Their work helps frame sexuality as part of the broader fight for equity, autonomy, and respect.
Submit your suggestions: https://susanamayer.com/curated-links/
Art & Intimacy: Stories Behind Erotic Masterpieces
Each month, I’ll spotlight one erotic work of art—bold, intimate, or quietly subversive. These pieces reveal how artists have explored desire, censorship, and the body across time and culture.
Erotic art isn’t just about what’s shown—it’s about what’s allowed, what’s hidden, and who gets to decide.
Paradise of the Blacks, 1925, Toyen
This Month’s Feature: Paradise of the Blacks, Private Collection.
From soap to brush
In the end, we will have a woman. On top of that, she was Czech. Toyen (her own name was Marie Čermínová, 1902–1980) is considered to be the first and only lady of the Czech interwar period avant-garde group Děvetsil. Her pen-name was written once by Jaroslav Seifert on a napkin and given to her. She accepted it. Her works often have erotic accent arousing discussions. Her „Black Paradise“ created a solid fuss. Someone in Prague bought this painting of black people made in 1925 for almost 32 million Czech crowns.
During the First world war, she was manufacturing soup with other workers but after the war, she applied for School of decorative arts and as early as in 1923, she had an exhibition in Prague´s Rudolfinum altogether with her close friend Jindřich Štýrský. This rebellious person, whose paintings are so popular that collectors are able to pay millions for them, was famous for her nonconformist opinions. She refused her civil name, broke family ties and denied traditional women´s role.
Toyen aka Marie Čermínová
Pants and cigarette in the corner of the mouth
She was always hiding her sexual orientation, but she liked male clothes. Inseparable part of her look was also a cigarette, swaying walk and fraternizing almost absolutely with men only. She supported anarchistic movement too. After the occupation, she moved to Paris where she was working with other surrealists at André Breton´s side. André Breton was the founder of this movement which – apart from dadaism – offers the possibility of freeing one´s mind and feeling conflicts via a process of creation. Toyen´s surrealistic paintings are still bewitching and very popular.
– Source: https://www.hedonist.cz/en/5-most-provocative-artists-of-the-turn-of-the-19th-20th-centuries/
Have an artwork to suggest? Whether it’s an ancient fresco or a classic photograph, share your favorite pieces with us! https://susanamayer.com/contact/
This section aims to explore how art has always been a mirror to our desires and discomforts, offering insight into the evolving dialogue between intimacy and expression.
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Final Thoughts
This Salon isn’t just a newsletter—it’s a space built on the stories, questions, and links you’ve dared to share. Thank you.
If you’ve been reading quietly, step in. One line, one image, one raw truth—you never know what will resonate.
Come across something that stirred you? Send it. A film, a headline, a memory you haven’t said out loud yet—it all belongs here.
Here’s to July/August: may it be bold, unfiltered, and full of unexpected heat.
I’m listening.
Warm regards,
Susana
Susana Mayer, PhD
Founder: The Erotic Literary Salon
Email: susanamayer3@gmail.com
Schedule a Consultation: https://susanamayer.com/schedule-an-appointment/
June 2025
SUSANA MAYER, PHD
JUN 03, 2025
The Erotic Literary Salon
A Verbal Sanctuary for Sexual Expression
Susana Mayer, PhD
June 3, 2025
Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
Thanks for reading! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.
For over a decade, The Erotic Literary Salon was a live sanctuary for bold, uncensored expression—where people gathered to share writing and spoken word exploring sex, identity, pleasure, and all the layered terrain in between. That spirit now lives on here, in print.
In this month’s newsletter, you’ll find optional prompts to stir your creativity, selected submissions that push boundaries with wit and honesty, a candid Q&A on sexuality, and excerpts from longer works. You’ll also find a new installment in my series on censorship—diving into what gets shared, what gets silenced, and why it still matters more than ever.
Whether you’ve been with the Salon since the early days or are just discovering it now, welcome. I’m so glad you’re here.
What’s Inside This Month’s Newsletter
Create Freely—A Prompt if You Need It
Write whatever moves you. If you’d like a little inspiration, choose from one of the prompts below.
· The One They Never Forgot
Everyone has that one lover, that one night, that one encounter that left an imprint. Maybe it was transcendent, maybe it was a disaster—but it lingers. Revisit that moment, from memory or imagination. Why can’t they forget?
· Behind Closed Doors
A character opens a door they were told never to enter. What they find is not what they expected—it’s something far more revealing, intimate, or unsettling. What do they see? And what does it change?
· The Body Remembers
Years later, in a completely different context, a touch, a scent, or a phrase brings it all back—the desire, the shame, the awakening. Let your character’s body lead the story before the mind catches up.
Several wonderful submissions posted on website:https://susanamayer.com/nsfw-pieces/
Submit at: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Author Submissions: Share Your Work with The Salon
We invite published authors to contribute to The Erotic Literary Salon. Share excerpts from your books or smaller works such as essays, short stories, or poetry. Along with your submission, please include a short bio to introduce yourself to our readers. This is a chance to showcase your voice, connect with a curious and engaged audience, and promote your work.
Submit your work and bio here: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines
Featured Author: Joe B.
A former journalist who first read at the Philadelphia Erotic Literary Salon in November 2013. He has been writing and posting erotica under the pen name Jacqueline Jillinghoff since the early 2010s and is the author of Madam Jillinghoff’s Bedroom Rhymes, a book of erotic light verse published by West Philly Press and available at Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Jillinghoffs-Bedroom-Rhymes-Jacqueline-Jillinghoff/dp/1544045239/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1C94IUII4CR35&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Czkpjw9wJMlY6ZJHWPmeHF_UQ3mqdPxkUPPsKgVro9z1OdVIllj7KLZYw1SU8_xvTgWlZILkQzmmnWtYjZ8KW63Pew1T4laTHxuvQskEqvk.qWTGMevQ4H53fbr8DduxHSjfIfdG9I4NbldZbhqzh0w&dib_tag=se&keywords=jillinghoff%27s+bedroom+rhymes&qid=1748984595&s=amazon-devices&sprefix=jillinghoff%27s+bedroom+rhymes%2Camazon-devices%2C106&sr=1-1
Other People’s Lust
It was a warm night in June ― not warm enough for the air conditioner, but enough to sleep naked with the bedcovers turned down. I’d taken a shower and toweled off lightly, leaving an airy film of moisture on my skin that kept me cool as it dried. My nipples were hard, and my cunt hair was damp, but sex was the last thing on my mind.
I’d had my bellyful of sex, of men, and especially of my husband, who had announced one evening after dinner that the marriage was no longer fun. It wasn’t me, mind you. I was still very attractive ― pause ― for a woman in her 40s. But if we could maybe have more variety: swap with another couple, or experiment with polyamory, or he could get a video of me with another woman. You know, something.
To be continued: https://susanamayer.com/featured-author/
A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
Exquisite Corpse: A Collective Creation
The sketch above is an Exquisite Corpse drawing from the 1930s—created by Salvador Dalí, Gala Dalí, Valentin Hugo, and André Breton.
This collaborative exercise invites people to contribute without knowing exactly what others have added, resulting in something unexpected, layered, and often beautifully strange.
Now it’s your turn.
Submit up to five evocative words—sensual, strange, playful, poetic. Once enough submissions are gathered, a collaborative poem will be created and shared in a future newsletter.
We’re still a few words short of bringing this to life, so if you’ve been meaning to submit, now’s the time.
Exquisite Corpse Submission: https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse
Adult Sex Education Q&A
Q: I want to be more confident in asking for what I want during sex, but I get nervous or afraid I’ll make things awkward. How do I speak up without ruining the moment?
A: It’s completely normal to feel vulnerable when expressing desires—especially in a culture that often teaches us to be silent, subtle, or selfless in bed. But the truth is, asking for what you want isn’t a disruption—it’s a turn-on. It shows presence, trust, and care, whether you’re in a long-term relationship or a one-time encounter.
Start small: a compliment, a gentle request, a curious question. “I’d love it if you…” or “Can we try…” goes a long way. Consent and communication are erotic when they come from a place of confidence—or even curiosity.
Remember: desire doesn’t kill the mood—silence often does.
Submit your question anonymously: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Read installments here: https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments.
Parts Too Provocative
The long history of erotic shame, one body part at a time
Introduction
What we find erotic isn’t just biological—it’s shaped by culture, power, and the shifting boundaries of what’s allowed to be seen. Across time and place, different body parts have been sexualized, idolized, or hidden, each choice reflecting deeper values about desire, control, and visibility.
This installment traces how various cultures have mapped meaning onto specific parts of the body. We begin with the female form, move to the male, and end with a look at how those lines are increasingly blurred.
These maps aren’t just about attraction. They’re about how societies regulate it—and what happens when they try to erase it.
Installment C: https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/
Share your experiences with censorship. visit https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/.
Newsworthy Updates
Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives.
Louisiana Investigates New York Doctor Over Mailed Abortion Pills
In May 2025, Louisiana authorities initiated a new investigation into Dr. Margaret Carpenter, a New York-based physician, for allegedly mailing abortion pills to a Louisiana resident. This follows her earlier indictment in January for prescribing abortion medication via telehealth to a pregnant minor in Louisiana. The case has intensified legal tensions between states with restrictive abortion laws and those with protective “shield laws” like New York, which refuse to extradite providers. Legal experts anticipate that this case could set a significant precedent in the evolving landscape of post-Roe abortion rights.
Feeld Dating App Sees Surge in ‘Vanilla Tourists’ Exploring Alternative Relationships
As of June 1, 2025, Feeld, a dating app known for facilitating non-traditional and experimental relationships, reported a 30% year-on-year growth in users since 2022. This surge is partly attributed to “vanilla tourists”—individuals accustomed to traditional dating—who are curious about alternative lifestyles. The platform’s CEO, Ana Kirova, emphasizes inclusivity, aiming to integrate newcomers while preserving the app’s core values. Feeld’s approach, which avoids algorithmic matchmaking and gamified interactions, has attracted a diverse user base, including significant growth among women over 40 and steady engagement from Gen Z, who use the platform for friendship and community as well as romance.
Submit a newsworthy update or suggestion: susanamayer3@gmail.com.
Erotic Literature & Creative Inspirations
Looking for inspiration? Discover erotic literature and creative works that push boundaries and spark curiosity—from classic novels to contemporary internet gems.
This Month’s Pick
“Top Down, Pants Off” – Audio Story from Sex is Art
📖 Listen for free on Substack: https://substack.com/home/post/p-162179315
Why explore it:
Top Down, Pants Off is an intimate audio narrative that delves into a spontaneous and passionate encounter. The story captures the exhilaration of unexpected desire, set against the backdrop of a sunlit drive. Its vivid storytelling and immersive audio format make it a compelling experience for listeners seeking sensual and evocative tales.
What makes it different:
Unlike traditional written erotica, this piece leverages the power of audio to engage the listener’s imagination, adding layers of nuance through tone and pacing. The narrative’s focus on a real-life scenario enhances its relatability, while the quality of production ensures an engaging auditory experience.
If you’re interested in more audio-centric erotic stories or have specific themes in mind, feel free to let me know, and I can provide additional tailored recommendations!
Have a favorite to share? Recommend books, essays, internet pieces, or standout works from Substack and Medium.
Title: [Book/Article/Work Name]
Author/Creator: [Author/Creator Name]
Why Explore It? [One-line description]
Curated Links: Discover and Share
Explore our curated list of sex-positive websites and resources that celebrate sexuality, creativity, and open expression. Have a favorite website, Substack, Medium piece, or Bluesky account to recommend? Share it with us!
Marty Klein, PhD – Sex Therapist & Author
• Website: https://www.martyklein.com
• Why Explore It?
Dr. Marty Klein is a nationally recognized sex therapist, author, and public policy advocate who has spent over 40 years helping adults better understand their sexual lives. His site offers a rich archive of essays, media appearances, and resources that address topics like sexual shame, desire discrepancies, porn panic, and public misconceptions about sexuality.
• What Makes It Different:
Klein’s writing is refreshingly direct, often humorous, and grounded in clinical experience. He doesn’t shy away from challenging cultural myths about sex, and he advocates fiercely for sexual rights and personal agency. His work bridges the gap between personal growth and political awareness—making it a valuable resource for those seeking both clarity and liberation.
Sex Positive World
• Website:
https://www.sexpositiveworld.org
• Why Explore It?
Sex Positive World is an international organization supporting a network of communities and individuals who embrace consent-based, shame-free approaches to sexuality. They offer educational events, local chapters, and guidance for those looking to explore intimacy, relationships, and identity in a respectful, informed way.
• What Makes It Different:
With its grassroots model and global reach, Sex Positive World helps people build real-life communities grounded in sex positivity. Their resources encourage open dialogue around pleasure, ethics, and embodiment—without judgment or narrow definitions. It’s ideal for anyone seeking both personal exploration and collective connection.
Submit your suggestions: https://susanamayer.com/curated-links/
Art & Intimacy: Stories Behind Erotic Masterpieces
Each month, we’ll explore the story behind an erotic work of art—what made it groundbreaking, controversial, or simply unforgettable. From prehistoric cave etchings to modernist provocations, these pieces reflect how artists across cultures and centuries have navigated desire, intimacy, censorship, and the shifting boundaries of acceptability.
Whether scandalizing audiences or quietly challenging convention, erotic art has always been more than skin deep. It reflects the politics of pleasure, the aesthetics of the body, and the limits society places on both.
Reclining Nude, Musée national Picasso
This Month’s Feature: Reclining Nude, Musée national Picasso
Painted in 1932 during one of Pablo Picasso’s most erotically charged periods, Reclining Nude is among several intimate portraits inspired by Marie-Thérèse Walter, the artist’s young mistress and muse. Picasso met Walter in 1927 when she was just 17, and he was 45—still married to ballerina Olga Khokhlova. Their relationship, initially kept secret, would go on to influence some of the most sensual and expressive works of his career.
Reclining Nude pulses with erotic energy. The softly contoured figure, rendered in dreamy purples and fleshy pinks, suggests both repose and radiance. While the pose recalls the classical odalisque, Picasso’s stylized abstraction transforms Walter’s body into a vision filtered through infatuation and obsession. Her athletic build and delicate features—especially her prominent profile and arched form—became recurring motifs in his work during this period.
Though not graphic, the painting’s intimacy is unmistakable. It speaks to a private, intensely physical relationship, made public only years later. Today, Reclining Nudehangs in the Musée national Picasso in Paris as a striking example of how eroticism in art can be deeply personal yet universally evocative—an exploration of longing, power, and the muse who inspired it.
Have an artwork to suggest? Whether it’s an ancient fresco or a classic photograph, share your favorite pieces with us!
This section aims to explore how art has always been a mirror to our desires and discomforts, offering insight into the evolving dialogue between intimacy and expression.
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Final Thoughts
It’s been a thrill watching this virtual Erotic Literary Salon take shape—thanks to you. The stories you share, the questions you send, the links you forward to friends: they’re what transform this from a newsletter into a living, breathing experience.
If you’ve been quietly reading along, consider this your invitation to step into the light. Whether it’s a bold story, a whispered poem, a simmering rant, or just one delicious sentence for the next Exquisite Corpse—your voice matters here.
And if you’ve come across something that stirred you—an article, a film, a conversation that made you reconsider how you think about sexuality, intimacy, or self-expression—pass it along. This Salon thrives on exchange, curiosity, and courage.
So here’s to the month ahead:
May it bring unfiltered honesty, surprising heat, and words that linger.
Keep writing, keep reading, keep daring.
I’m listening.
Warm regards,
Susana
Susana Mayer, PhD
Founder: The Erotic Literary Salon
Email: susanamayer3@gmail.com
Schedule a Consultation: https://susanamayer.com/schedule-an-appointment/
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The Erotic Literary Salon
A Verbal Sanctuary for Sexual Expression
Susana Mayer, PhD
June 3, 2025
Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
Thanks for reading! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.
For over a decade, The Erotic Literary Salon was a live sanctuary for bold, uncensored expression—where people gathered to share writing and spoken word exploring sex, identity, pleasure, and all the layered terrain in between. That spirit now lives on here, in print.
In this month’s newsletter, you’ll find optional prompts to stir your creativity, selected submissions that push boundaries with wit and honesty, a candid Q&A on sexuality, and excerpts from longer works. You’ll also find a new installment in my series on censorship—diving into what gets shared, what gets silenced, and why it still matters more than ever.
Whether you’ve been with the Salon since the early days or are just discovering it now, welcome. I’m so glad you’re here.
What’s Inside This Month’s Newsletter
Create Freely—A Prompt if You Need It
Write whatever moves you. If you’d like a little inspiration, choose from one of the prompts below.
· The One They Never Forgot
Everyone has that one lover, that one night, that one encounter that left an imprint. Maybe it was transcendent, maybe it was a disaster—but it lingers. Revisit that moment, from memory or imagination. Why can’t they forget?
· Behind Closed Doors
A character opens a door they were told never to enter. What they find is not what they expected—it’s something far more revealing, intimate, or unsettling. What do they see? And what does it change?
· The Body Remembers
Years later, in a completely different context, a touch, a scent, or a phrase brings it all back—the desire, the shame, the awakening. Let your character’s body lead the story before the mind catches up.
Several wonderful submissions posted on website:https://susanamayer.com/nsfw-pieces/
Submit at: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Author Submissions: Share Your Work with The Salon
We invite published authors to contribute to The Erotic Literary Salon. Share excerpts from your books or smaller works such as essays, short stories, or poetry. Along with your submission, please include a short bio to introduce yourself to our readers. This is a chance to showcase your voice, connect with a curious and engaged audience, and promote your work.
Submit your work and bio here: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines
Featured Author: Joe B.
A former journalist who first read at the Philadelphia Erotic Literary Salon in November 2013. He has been writing and posting erotica under the pen name Jacqueline Jillinghoff since the early 2010s and is the author of Madam Jillinghoff’s Bedroom Rhymes, a book of erotic light verse published by West Philly Press and available at Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Jillinghoffs-Bedroom-Rhymes-Jacqueline-Jillinghoff/dp/1544045239/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1C94IUII4CR35&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Czkpjw9wJMlY6ZJHWPmeHF_UQ3mqdPxkUPPsKgVro9z1OdVIllj7KLZYw1SU8_xvTgWlZILkQzmmnWtYjZ8KW63Pew1T4laTHxuvQskEqvk.qWTGMevQ4H53fbr8DduxHSjfIfdG9I4NbldZbhqzh0w&dib_tag=se&keywords=jillinghoff%27s+bedroom+rhymes&qid=1748984595&s=amazon-devices&sprefix=jillinghoff%27s+bedroom+rhymes%2Camazon-devices%2C106&sr=1-1
Other People’s Lust
It was a warm night in June ― not warm enough for the air conditioner, but enough to sleep naked with the bedcovers turned down. I’d taken a shower and toweled off lightly, leaving an airy film of moisture on my skin that kept me cool as it dried. My nipples were hard, and my cunt hair was damp, but sex was the last thing on my mind.
I’d had my bellyful of sex, of men, and especially of my husband, who had announced one evening after dinner that the marriage was no longer fun. It wasn’t me, mind you. I was still very attractive ― pause ― for a woman in her 40s. But if we could maybe have more variety: swap with another couple, or experiment with polyamory, or he could get a video of me with another woman. You know, something.
To be continued: https://susanamayer.com/featured-author/
A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
Exquisite Corpse: A Collective Creation
The sketch above is an Exquisite Corpse drawing from the 1930s—created by Salvador Dalí, Gala Dalí, Valentin Hugo, and André Breton.
This collaborative exercise invites people to contribute without knowing exactly what others have added, resulting in something unexpected, layered, and often beautifully strange.
Now it’s your turn.
Submit up to five evocative words—sensual, strange, playful, poetic. Once enough submissions are gathered, a collaborative poem will be created and shared in a future newsletter.
We’re still a few words short of bringing this to life, so if you’ve been meaning to submit, now’s the time.
Exquisite Corpse Submission: https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse
Adult Sex Education Q&A
Q: I want to be more confident in asking for what I want during sex, but I get nervous or afraid I’ll make things awkward. How do I speak up without ruining the moment?
A: It’s completely normal to feel vulnerable when expressing desires—especially in a culture that often teaches us to be silent, subtle, or selfless in bed. But the truth is, asking for what you want isn’t a disruption—it’s a turn-on. It shows presence, trust, and care, whether you’re in a long-term relationship or a one-time encounter.
Start small: a compliment, a gentle request, a curious question. “I’d love it if you…” or “Can we try…” goes a long way. Consent and communication are erotic when they come from a place of confidence—or even curiosity.
Remember: desire doesn’t kill the mood—silence often does.
Submit your question anonymously: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Read installments here: https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments.
Parts Too Provocative
The long history of erotic shame, one body part at a time
Introduction
What we find erotic isn’t just biological—it’s shaped by culture, power, and the shifting boundaries of what’s allowed to be seen. Across time and place, different body parts have been sexualized, idolized, or hidden, each choice reflecting deeper values about desire, control, and visibility.
This installment traces how various cultures have mapped meaning onto specific parts of the body. We begin with the female form, move to the male, and end with a look at how those lines are increasingly blurred.
These maps aren’t just about attraction. They’re about how societies regulate it—and what happens when they try to erase it.
Installment C: https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/
Share your experiences with censorship. visit https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/.
Newsworthy Updates
Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives.
Louisiana Investigates New York Doctor Over Mailed Abortion Pills
In May 2025, Louisiana authorities initiated a new investigation into Dr. Margaret Carpenter, a New York-based physician, for allegedly mailing abortion pills to a Louisiana resident. This follows her earlier indictment in January for prescribing abortion medication via telehealth to a pregnant minor in Louisiana. The case has intensified legal tensions between states with restrictive abortion laws and those with protective “shield laws” like New York, which refuse to extradite providers. Legal experts anticipate that this case could set a significant precedent in the evolving landscape of post-Roe abortion rights.
Feeld Dating App Sees Surge in ‘Vanilla Tourists’ Exploring Alternative Relationships
As of June 1, 2025, Feeld, a dating app known for facilitating non-traditional and experimental relationships, reported a 30% year-on-year growth in users since 2022. This surge is partly attributed to “vanilla tourists”—individuals accustomed to traditional dating—who are curious about alternative lifestyles. The platform’s CEO, Ana Kirova, emphasizes inclusivity, aiming to integrate newcomers while preserving the app’s core values. Feeld’s approach, which avoids algorithmic matchmaking and gamified interactions, has attracted a diverse user base, including significant growth among women over 40 and steady engagement from Gen Z, who use the platform for friendship and community as well as romance.
Submit a newsworthy update or suggestion: susanamayer3@gmail.com.
Erotic Literature & Creative Inspirations
Looking for inspiration? Discover erotic literature and creative works that push boundaries and spark curiosity—from classic novels to contemporary internet gems.
This Month’s Pick
“Top Down, Pants Off” – Audio Story from Sex is Art
📖 Listen for free on Substack: https://substack.com/home/post/p-162179315
Why explore it:
Top Down, Pants Off is an intimate audio narrative that delves into a spontaneous and passionate encounter. The story captures the exhilaration of unexpected desire, set against the backdrop of a sunlit drive. Its vivid storytelling and immersive audio format make it a compelling experience for listeners seeking sensual and evocative tales.
What makes it different:
Unlike traditional written erotica, this piece leverages the power of audio to engage the listener’s imagination, adding layers of nuance through tone and pacing. The narrative’s focus on a real-life scenario enhances its relatability, while the quality of production ensures an engaging auditory experience.
If you’re interested in more audio-centric erotic stories or have specific themes in mind, feel free to let me know, and I can provide additional tailored recommendations!
Have a favorite to share? Recommend books, essays, internet pieces, or standout works from Substack and Medium.
Title: [Book/Article/Work Name]
Author/Creator: [Author/Creator Name]
Why Explore It? [One-line description]
Curated Links: Discover and Share
Explore our curated list of sex-positive websites and resources that celebrate sexuality, creativity, and open expression. Have a favorite website, Substack, Medium piece, or Bluesky account to recommend? Share it with us!
Marty Klein, PhD – Sex Therapist & Author
• Website: chttps://www.martyklein.com
• Why Explore It?
Dr. Marty Klein is a nationally recognized sex therapist, author, and public policy advocate who has spent over 40 years helping adults better understand their sexual lives. His site offers a rich archive of essays, media appearances, and resources that address topics like sexual shame, desire discrepancies, porn panic, and public misconceptions about sexuality.
• What Makes It Different:
Klein’s writing is refreshingly direct, often humorous, and grounded in clinical experience. He doesn’t shy away from challenging cultural myths about sex, and he advocates fiercely for sexual rights and personal agency. His work bridges the gap between personal growth and political awareness—making it a valuable resource for those seeking both clarity and liberation.
Sex Positive World
• Website:
https://www.sexpositiveworld.org
• Why Explore It?
Sex Positive World is an international organization supporting a network of communities and individuals who embrace consent-based, shame-free approaches to sexuality. They offer educational events, local chapters, and guidance for those looking to explore intimacy, relationships, and identity in a respectful, informed way.
• What Makes It Different:
With its grassroots model and global reach, Sex Positive World helps people build real-life communities grounded in sex positivity. Their resources encourage open dialogue around pleasure, ethics, and embodiment—without judgment or narrow definitions. It’s ideal for anyone seeking both personal exploration and collective connection.
Submit your suggestions: https://susanamayer.com/curated-links/
Art & Intimacy: Stories Behind Erotic Masterpieces
Each month, we’ll explore the story behind an erotic work of art—what made it groundbreaking, controversial, or simply unforgettable. From prehistoric cave etchings to modernist provocations, these pieces reflect how artists across cultures and centuries have navigated desire, intimacy, censorship, and the shifting boundaries of acceptability.
Whether scandalizing audiences or quietly challenging convention, erotic art has always been more than skin deep. It reflects the politics of pleasure, the aesthetics of the body, and the limits society places on both.
Reclining Nude, Musée national Picasso
This Month’s Feature: Reclining Nude, Musée national Picasso
Painted in 1932 during one of Pablo Picasso’s most erotically charged periods, Reclining Nude is among several intimate portraits inspired by Marie-Thérèse Walter, the artist’s young mistress and muse. Picasso met Walter in 1927 when she was just 17, and he was 45—still married to ballerina Olga Khokhlova. Their relationship, initially kept secret, would go on to influence some of the most sensual and expressive works of his career.
Reclining Nude pulses with erotic energy. The softly contoured figure, rendered in dreamy purples and fleshy pinks, suggests both repose and radiance. While the pose recalls the classical odalisque, Picasso’s stylized abstraction transforms Walter’s body into a vision filtered through infatuation and obsession. Her athletic build and delicate features—especially her prominent profile and arched form—became recurring motifs in his work during this period.
Though not graphic, the painting’s intimacy is unmistakable. It speaks to a private, intensely physical relationship, made public only years later. Today, Reclining Nudehangs in the Musée national Picasso in Paris as a striking example of how eroticism in art can be deeply personal yet universally evocative—an exploration of longing, power, and the muse who inspired it.
Have an artwork to suggest? Whether it’s an ancient fresco or a classic photograph, share your favorite pieces with us!
This section aims to explore how art has always been a mirror to our desires and discomforts, offering insight into the evolving dialogue between intimacy and expression.
How to Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition)
Joining The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition) is quick and easy!
- Click the Link: Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon (Virtual Edition)
- Enter your email address to ensure the newsletter is delivered directly to your inbox.
- That’s it! You’re subscribed and ready to receive regular updates, writing prompts, book excerpts, and more—all at no cost.
Note: You do not need a Substack account to subscribe or access the newsletter. You can subscribe using just your email address, and the newsletter will be delivered directly to your inbox.s
Note: You do not need a Substack account to subscribe or access the newsletter. You can subscribe using just your email address, and the newsletter will be delivered directly to your inbox.
Final Thoughts
It’s been a thrill watching this virtual Erotic Literary Salon take shape—thanks to you. The stories you share, the questions you send, the links you forward to friends: they’re what transform this from a newsletter into a living, breathing experience.
If you’ve been quietly reading along, consider this your invitation to step into the light. Whether it’s a bold story, a whispered poem, a simmering rant, or just one delicious sentence for the next Exquisite Corpse—your voice matters here.
And if you’ve come across something that stirred you—an article, a film, a conversation that made you reconsider how you think about sexuality, intimacy, or self-expression—pass it along. This Salon thrives on exchange, curiosity, and courage.
So here’s to the month ahead:
May it bring unfiltered honesty, surprising heat, and words that linger.
Keep writing, keep reading, keep daring.
I’m listening.
Warm regards,
Susana
Susana Mayer, PhD
Founder: The Erotic Literary Salon
Email: susanamayer3@gmail.com
Schedule a Consultation: https://susanamayer.com/schedule-an-appointment/
www.susanamayer.com
Thanks for reading! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.
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Susana Mayer, PhD
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Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
Thanks for reading! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.
For over a decade, The Erotic Literary Salon was a live sanctuary for bold, uncensored expression—where people gathered to share writing and spoken word exploring sex, identity, pleasure, and all the layered terrain in between. That spirit now lives on here, in print.
In this month’s newsletter, you’ll find optional prompts to stir your creativity, selected submissions that push boundaries with wit and honesty, a candid Q&A on sexuality, and excerpts from longer works. You’ll also find a new installment in my series on censorship—diving into what gets shared, what gets silenced, and why it still matters more than ever.
Whether you’ve been with the Salon since the early days or are just discovering it now, welcome. I’m so glad you’re here.
What’s Inside This Month’s Newsletter
Create Freely—A Prompt if You Need It
Write whatever moves you. If you’d like a little inspiration, choose from one of the prompts below.
· The One They Never Forgot
Everyone has that one lover, that one night, that one encounter that left an imprint. Maybe it was transcendent, maybe it was a disaster—but it lingers. Revisit that moment, from memory or imagination. Why can’t they forget?
· Behind Closed Doors
A character opens a door they were told never to enter. What they find is not what they expected—it’s something far more revealing, intimate, or unsettling. What do they see? And what does it change?
· The Body Remembers
Years later, in a completely different context, a touch, a scent, or a phrase brings it all back—the desire, the shame, the awakening. Let your character’s body lead the story before the mind catches up.
Several wonderful submissions posted on website:https://susanamayer.com/nsfw-pieces/
Submit at: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Author Submissions: Share Your Work with The Salon
We invite published authors to contribute to The Erotic Literary Salon. Share excerpts from your books or smaller works such as essays, short stories, or poetry. Along with your submission, please include a short bio to introduce yourself to our readers. This is a chance to showcase your voice, connect with a curious and engaged audience, and promote your work.
Submit your work and bio here: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines
Featured Author: Joe B.
A former journalist who first read at the Philadelphia Erotic Literary Salon in November 2013. He has been writing and posting erotica under the pen name Jacqueline Jillinghoff since the early 2010s and is the author of Madam Jillinghoff’s Bedroom Rhymes, a book of erotic light verse published by West Philly Press and available at Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Jillinghoffs-Bedroom-Rhymes-Jacqueline-Jillinghoff/dp/1544045239/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1C94IUII4CR35&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Czkpjw9wJMlY6ZJHWPmeHF_UQ3mqdPxkUPPsKgVro9z1OdVIllj7KLZYw1SU8_xvTgWlZILkQzmmnWtYjZ8KW63Pew1T4laTHxuvQskEqvk.qWTGMevQ4H53fbr8DduxHSjfIfdG9I4NbldZbhqzh0w&dib_tag=se&keywords=jillinghoff%27s+bedroom+rhymes&qid=1748984595&s=amazon-devices&sprefix=jillinghoff%27s+bedroom+rhymes%2Camazon-devices%2C106&sr=1-1
Other People’s Lust
It was a warm night in June ― not warm enough for the air conditioner, but enough to sleep naked with the bedcovers turned down. I’d taken a shower and toweled off lightly, leaving an airy film of moisture on my skin that kept me cool as it dried. My nipples were hard, and my cunt hair was damp, but sex was the last thing on my mind.
I’d had my bellyful of sex, of men, and especially of my husband, who had announced one evening after dinner that the marriage was no longer fun. It wasn’t me, mind you. I was still very attractive ― pause ― for a woman in her 40s. But if we could maybe have more variety: swap with another couple, or experiment with polyamory, or he could get a video of me with another woman. You know, something.
To be continued: https://susanamayer.com/featured-author/
A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
Exquisite Corpse: A Collective Creation
The sketch above is an Exquisite Corpse drawing from the 1930s—created by Salvador Dalí, Gala Dalí, Valentin Hugo, and André Breton.
This collaborative exercise invites people to contribute without knowing exactly what others have added, resulting in something unexpected, layered, and often beautifully strange.
Now it’s your turn.
Submit up to five evocative words—sensual, strange, playful, poetic. Once enough submissions are gathered, a collaborative poem will be created and shared in a future newsletter.
We’re still a few words short of bringing this to life, so if you’ve been meaning to submit, now’s the time.
Exquisite Corpse Submission: https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse
Adult Sex Education Q&A
Q: I want to be more confident in asking for what I want during sex, but I get nervous or afraid I’ll make things awkward. How do I speak up without ruining the moment?
A: It’s completely normal to feel vulnerable when expressing desires—especially in a culture that often teaches us to be silent, subtle, or selfless in bed. But the truth is, asking for what you want isn’t a disruption—it’s a turn-on. It shows presence, trust, and care, whether you’re in a long-term relationship or a one-time encounter.
Start small: a compliment, a gentle request, a curious question. “I’d love it if you…” or “Can we try…” goes a long way. Consent and communication are erotic when they come from a place of confidence—or even curiosity.
Remember: desire doesn’t kill the mood—silence often does.
Submit your question anonymously: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Read installments here: https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments.
Parts Too Provocative
The long history of erotic shame, one body part at a time
Introduction
What we find erotic isn’t just biological—it’s shaped by culture, power, and the shifting boundaries of what’s allowed to be seen. Across time and place, different body parts have been sexualized, idolized, or hidden, each choice reflecting deeper values about desire, control, and visibility.
This installment traces how various cultures have mapped meaning onto specific parts of the body. We begin with the female form, move to the male, and end with a look at how those lines are increasingly blurred.
These maps aren’t just about attraction. They’re about how societies regulate it—and what happens when they try to erase it.
Installment C: https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/
Share your experiences with censorship. visit https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/.
Newsworthy Updates
Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives.
Louisiana Investigates New York Doctor Over Mailed Abortion Pills
In May 2025, Louisiana authorities initiated a new investigation into Dr. Margaret Carpenter, a New York-based physician, for allegedly mailing abortion pills to a Louisiana resident. This follows her earlier indictment in January for prescribing abortion medication via telehealth to a pregnant minor in Louisiana. The case has intensified legal tensions between states with restrictive abortion laws and those with protective “shield laws” like New York, which refuse to extradite providers. Legal experts anticipate that this case could set a significant precedent in the evolving landscape of post-Roe abortion rights.
Feeld Dating App Sees Surge in ‘Vanilla Tourists’ Exploring Alternative Relationships
As of June 1, 2025, Feeld, a dating app known for facilitating non-traditional and experimental relationships, reported a 30% year-on-year growth in users since 2022. This surge is partly attributed to “vanilla tourists”—individuals accustomed to traditional dating—who are curious about alternative lifestyles. The platform’s CEO, Ana Kirova, emphasizes inclusivity, aiming to integrate newcomers while preserving the app’s core values. Feeld’s approach, which avoids algorithmic matchmaking and gamified interactions, has attracted a diverse user base, including significant growth among women over 40 and steady engagement from Gen Z, who use the platform for friendship and community as well as romance.
Submit a newsworthy update or suggestion: susanamayer3@gmail.com.
Erotic Literature & Creative Inspirations
Looking for inspiration? Discover erotic literature and creative works that push boundaries and spark curiosity—from classic novels to contemporary internet gems.
This Month’s Pick
“Top Down, Pants Off” – Audio Story from Sex is Art
📖 Listen for free on Substack: https://substack.com/home/post/p-162179315
Why explore it:
Top Down, Pants Off is an intimate audio narrative that delves into a spontaneous and passionate encounter. The story captures the exhilaration of unexpected desire, set against the backdrop of a sunlit drive. Its vivid storytelling and immersive audio format make it a compelling experience for listeners seeking sensual and evocative tales.
What makes it different:
Unlike traditional written erotica, this piece leverages the power of audio to engage the listener’s imagination, adding layers of nuance through tone and pacing. The narrative’s focus on a real-life scenario enhances its relatability, while the quality of production ensures an engaging auditory experience.
If you’re interested in more audio-centric erotic stories or have specific themes in mind, feel free to let me know, and I can provide additional tailored recommendations!
Have a favorite to share? Recommend books, essays, internet pieces, or standout works from Substack and Medium.
Title: [Book/Article/Work Name]
Author/Creator: [Author/Creator Name]
Why Explore It? [One-line description]
Curated Links: Discover and Share
Explore our curated list of sex-positive websites and resources that celebrate sexuality, creativity, and open expression. Have a favorite website, Substack, Medium piece, or Bluesky account to recommend? Share it with us!
Marty Klein, PhD – Sex Therapist & Author
• Website: chttps://www.martyklein.com
• Why Explore It?
Dr. Marty Klein is a nationally recognized sex therapist, author, and public policy advocate who has spent over 40 years helping adults better understand their sexual lives. His site offers a rich archive of essays, media appearances, and resources that address topics like sexual shame, desire discrepancies, porn panic, and public misconceptions about sexuality.
• What Makes It Different:
Klein’s writing is refreshingly direct, often humorous, and grounded in clinical experience. He doesn’t shy away from challenging cultural myths about sex, and he advocates fiercely for sexual rights and personal agency. His work bridges the gap between personal growth and political awareness—making it a valuable resource for those seeking both clarity and liberation.
Sex Positive World
• Website:
https://www.sexpositiveworld.org
• Why Explore It?
Sex Positive World is an international organization supporting a network of communities and individuals who embrace consent-based, shame-free approaches to sexuality. They offer educational events, local chapters, and guidance for those looking to explore intimacy, relationships, and identity in a respectful, informed way.
• What Makes It Different:
With its grassroots model and global reach, Sex Positive World helps people build real-life communities grounded in sex positivity. Their resources encourage open dialogue around pleasure, ethics, and embodiment—without judgment or narrow definitions. It’s ideal for anyone seeking both personal exploration and collective connection.
Submit your suggestions: https://susanamayer.com/curated-links/
Art & Intimacy: Stories Behind Erotic Masterpieces
Each month, we’ll explore the story behind an erotic work of art—what made it groundbreaking, controversial, or simply unforgettable. From prehistoric cave etchings to modernist provocations, these pieces reflect how artists across cultures and centuries have navigated desire, intimacy, censorship, and the shifting boundaries of acceptability.
Whether scandalizing audiences or quietly challenging convention, erotic art has always been more than skin deep. It reflects the politics of pleasure, the aesthetics of the body, and the limits society places on both.
Reclining Nude, Musée national Picasso
This Month’s Feature: Reclining Nude, Musée national Picasso
Painted in 1932 during one of Pablo Picasso’s most erotically charged periods, Reclining Nude is among several intimate portraits inspired by Marie-Thérèse Walter, the artist’s young mistress and muse. Picasso met Walter in 1927 when she was just 17, and he was 45—still married to ballerina Olga Khokhlova. Their relationship, initially kept secret, would go on to influence some of the most sensual and expressive works of his career.
Reclining Nude pulses with erotic energy. The softly contoured figure, rendered in dreamy purples and fleshy pinks, suggests both repose and radiance. While the pose recalls the classical odalisque, Picasso’s stylized abstraction transforms Walter’s body into a vision filtered through infatuation and obsession. Her athletic build and delicate features—especially her prominent profile and arched form—became recurring motifs in his work during this period.
Though not graphic, the painting’s intimacy is unmistakable. It speaks to a private, intensely physical relationship, made public only years later. Today, Reclining Nudehangs in the Musée national Picasso in Paris as a striking example of how eroticism in art can be deeply personal yet universally evocative—an exploration of longing, power, and the muse who inspired it.
Have an artwork to suggest? Whether it’s an ancient fresco or a classic photograph, share your favorite pieces with us!
This section aims to explore how art has always been a mirror to our desires and discomforts, offering insight into the evolving dialogue between intimacy and expression.
How to Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition)
Joining The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition) is quick and easy!
- Click the Link: Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon (Virtual Edition)
- Enter your email address to ensure the newsletter is delivered directly to your inbox.
- That’s it! You’re subscribed and ready to receive regular updates, writing prompts, book excerpts, and more—all at no cost.
Note: You do not need a Substack account to subscribe or access the newsletter. You can subscribe using just your email address, and the newsletter will be delivered directly to your inbox.s
Note: You do not need a Substack account to subscribe or access the newsletter. You can subscribe using just your email address, and the newsletter will be delivered directly to your inbox.
Final Thoughts
It’s been a thrill watching this virtual Erotic Literary Salon take shape—thanks to you. The stories you share, the questions you send, the links you forward to friends: they’re what transform this from a newsletter into a living, breathing experience.
If you’ve been quietly reading along, consider this your invitation to step into the light. Whether it’s a bold story, a whispered poem, a simmering rant, or just one delicious sentence for the next Exquisite Corpse—your voice matters here.
And if you’ve come across something that stirred you—an article, a film, a conversation that made you reconsider how you think about sexuality, intimacy, or self-expression—pass it along. This Salon thrives on exchange, curiosity, and courage.
So here’s to the month ahead:
May it bring unfiltered honesty, surprising heat, and words that linger.
Keep writing, keep reading, keep daring.
I’m listening.
Warm regards,
Susana
Susana Mayer, PhD
Founder: The Erotic Literary Salon
Email: susanamayer3@gmail.com
Schedule a Consultation: https://susanamayer.com/schedule-an-appointment/
www.susanamayer.com
Thanks for reading! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.
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Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
For over a decade, the Salon was a space for bold, uncensored expression—where people shared writing and spoken word that explored sex, identity, pleasure, and everything in between. That same spirit lives on here, in print.
This month’s newsletter offers optional prompts, selected submissions, a Q&A section, and excerpts from longer works. You’ll also find a fresh installment that explores the impact of censorship—what gets shared, what gets silenced, and why that still matters.
Whether you’ve been part of the Salon for years or you’re just discovering it now, I’m so glad you’re here.
What’s Inside This Month’s Newsletter
Create Freely—A Prompt if You Need It
Write whatever moves you. If you’d like a little inspiration, choose from one of the prompts below.
· The First Time Again – Your character gets to experience a sexual “first” for the second time—but with everything they know now. Examples – first kiss, first sexual experience, first orgy, etc.
· Objects of Affection – A seemingly ordinary object—a scarf, a spoon, a bottle of lotion—holds a secret. It has witnessed something it shouldn’t have. Tell its story.
· Under the Table – During a gathering, a quiet exchange happens out of sight—beneath the table, behind a curtain, or in the charged silence between glances. What unfolds, and who notices?
Several wonderful submissions posted on website: https://susanamayer.com/nsfw-pieces/
Submit at: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Author Submissions: Share Your Work with The Salon
We invite published authors to contribute to The Erotic Literary Salon. Share excerpts from your books or smaller works such as essays, short stories, or poetry. Along with your submission, please include a short bio to introduce yourself to our readers. This is a chance to showcase your voice, connect with a curious and engaged audience, and promote your work.
Submit your work and bio here: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines
Featured Author: Ram Krishna Singh, also known as R.K. Singh
Professor Emeritus of English (HAG) at IIT-ISM in Dhanbad, India, Dr Singh has published 56 books, including poetry collections. His haiku and tanka have been internationally read, appreciated and translated into several languages. Find him on X (Twitter) @profrksingh and on Facebook www.facebook.com/profrksingh
HUES OF PASSION
Stains of honeymoon
the sun and clouds:
sky’s gentle embrace
time can’t erase
hues of passion
More of R.K. Singhs’ micropoems to be found at: https://susanamayer.com/featured-author/
A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
Exquisite Corpse: A Collective Creation
The sketch above is an Exquisite Corpse drawing from the 1930s—created by Salvador Dalí, Gala Dalí, Valentin Hugo, and André Breton.
This collaborative exercise invites people to contribute without knowing exactly what others have added, resulting in something unexpected, layered, and often beautifully strange.
Now it’s your turn.
Submit up to five evocative words—sensual, strange, playful, poetic. Once enough submissions are gathered, a collaborative poem will be created and shared in a future newsletter.
We’re still a few words short of bringing this to life, so if you’ve been meaning to submit, now’s the time.
Exquisite Corpse Submission: https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse
Adult Sex Education Q&A
Q: I’m still figuring out what I like sexually, but I feel pressure to “know” or perform. How do I explore without feeling like I’m doing it wrong?
A: You’re not alone—many people feel this pressure, especially early on. Despite what culture, porn, or even friends might suggest, there’s no universal roadmap for desire. What you like is something you learn by being curious, not by performing.
Exploring can mean fantasizing, journaling, reading, or slowly experimenting with a partner you trust. The goal isn’t to impress or get it “right”—it’s to listen to your body, your mind, and your instincts.
Pleasure doesn’t have a finish line—it evolves, just like you.
Submit your question anonymously: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Read installments here: https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
Venus of Willendorf
Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments.
When the Body was Divine
Installment B: Examines how the naked human form—once celebrated in sacred rituals, mythologies, and art—was transformed into a source of shame.
Installment B: https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/
Share your experiences with censorship. visit https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/.
Newsworthy Updates
Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives.
HHS Report on Transgender Youth Care: The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services released a report promoting “exploratory therapy” as an alternative to gender-affirming care for transgender youth. Critics argue this approach resembles discredited conversion therapy practices.
https://time.com/7281894/new-hhs-report-exploratory-therapy-transgender-youth
The Silent Divorce Phenomenon: Experts caution that some couples experience a “silent divorce,” where they live together but are emotionally disconnected. Signs include feeling more like roommates than romantic partners, lack of meaningful communication, and absence of conflict, which can suggest apathy rather than harmony. Therapists note that even fighting may indicate ongoing engagement, while complete emotional detachment is more concerning. Recognizing and addressing these signs early can prevent further deterioration of the relationship.
https://edition.cnn.com/2025/04/26/health/silent-divorce-wellness/index.html
Submit a newsworthy update or suggestion: susanamayer3@gmail.com.
Erotic Literature & Creative Inspirations
Looking for inspiration? Discover erotic literature and creative works that push boundaries and spark curiosity—from classic novels to contemporary internet gems.
This Month’s Pick
“The Visitor” by Bridget Bellecerise”
https://www.bellesa.co/story/439/the-visitor
Why explore it:
The Visitor is a concise yet intense erotic short story that delves into themes of power dynamics and unexpected encounters. The narrative centers around a woman preparing for a solitary evening who receives an unanticipated visit from a man with whom she shares a complex relationship. Their ensuing interaction is charged with tension and desire, offering a vivid portrayal of spontaneous passion.
What makes it different:
Unlike many erotic tales that focus solely on physical descriptions, The Visitor emphasizes the psychological interplay between the characters. The story’s brevity doesn’t compromise its depth; instead, it enhances the immediacy and intensity of the experience. Delivered through an audio format, it allows listeners to immerse themselves fully, engaging the imagination in a uniquely personal way.
Have a favorite to share? Recommend books, essays, internet pieces, or standout works from Substack and Medium.
Title: [Book/Article/Work Name]
Author/Creator: [Author/Creator Name]
Why Explore It? [One-line description]
Curated Links: Discover and Share
Explore our curated list of sex-positive websites and resources that celebrate sexuality, creativity, and open expression. Have a favorite website, Substack, Medium piece, or Bluesky account to recommend? Share it with us!
Pleasure Pie
Website: pleasurepie.org
Why Explore It?
Based in Boston, Pleasure Pie is a sex-positive education organization that creates zines on sexual liberation and leads sex education workshops for colleges and organizations. Their approach is grounded in sexual justice and intersectional liberation, celebrating diverse sexualities, bodies, relationships, genders, and desires.
What Makes It Different:
Pleasure Pie offers a collection of free, printable zines that tackle topics like consent, sexual wellness, and overcoming sexual shame. Their workshops come from a sex-positive, feminist, anti-oppressive perspective, centering the experiences of queer and transgender folks, fat folks, and people with marginalized sexualities, genders, and relationship structures.
Sex Positive You
Website: https://www.sexpositiveyou.com
Why Explore It?
Sex Positive You offers signature workshops on topics such as rewriting narratives, sex positivity, sexual objectification, arousal, and bodies with vulvas. They also provide consulting services for those seeking support in developing or reviewing curriculum, syllabi, workshops, or programs. Sex Positive You
What Makes It Different:
The platform focuses on creating personalized educational experiences that address individual and organizational needs, promoting a comprehensive understanding of sex positivity and related topics.
Submit your suggestions: https://susanamayer.com/curated-links/
Art & Intimacy: Stories Behind Erotic Masterpieces
Each month, we’ll dive into the history of erotic works of art, exploring what made them groundbreaking, controversial, or simply unforgettable. From ancient cave drawings to classic paintings like Manet’s Olympia, this section will highlight how art has navigated the complexities of desire, intimacy, and societal norms.
The Dream of the Fisherman’s Wife, Katsushika Hokusai
The Dream of the Fisherman’s Wife by Hokusai (1814)
The Piece of Art:
This infamous ukiyo-e woodblock print by Katsushika Hokusai, featured in his erotic book Kinoe no Komatsu, depicts a woman in an ecstatic embrace with two octopuses. Despite its graphic nature, the image is rendered with elegance, fluidity, and even a strange tenderness.
Why It Was Groundbreaking:
At the time, Japanese shunga (erotic prints) were not considered obscene, but The Dream pushed boundaries with its fantastical, interspecies theme. It blurred the lines between eroticism and mythology, opening space for sexual surrealism in art.
Controversy and Impact:
Though not scandalous in Edo-period Japan, the image shocked Western audiences upon later discovery. It has since been the subject of feminist, psychoanalytic, and art-historical debate, particularly around consent, fantasy, and female pleasure.
Legacy:
Today, The Dream of the Fisherman’s Wife is a cultural icon—widely referenced in literature, film, and contemporary art. Its lasting legacy lies in its unapologetic representation of female desire and the bizarre, illuminating the power of erotic art to unsettle and intrigue across time.
Potential Focus:
This piece invites conversation about erotic fantasy, cultural interpretations of sexuality, and how imagery can challenge the boundaries between the human and the mythological.
Have an artwork to suggest? Whether it’s an ancient fresco or a classic photograph, share your favorite pieces with us!
This section aims to explore how art has always been a mirror to our desires and discomforts, offering insight into the evolving dialogue between intimacy and expression.
How to Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition)
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Final Thoughts
Thank you for the continued support and enthusiasm for the virtual Erotic Literary Salon. Every message, submission, and shared link helps this space grow into something truly special. It’s a joy to see how many of you are inspired by the invitation to express yourselves freely and creatively.
If you haven’t participated yet, consider this your gentle nudge—submit a story, a poem, a rant, or even just a few evocative words for the Exquisite Corpse. And if something you’ve read, watched, or listened to made you think or feel differently about sexuality, identity, or intimacy, I’d love to know about it.
This Salon is shaped by you. Your stories, your curiosities, your willingness to explore what often goes unsaid—that’s what keeps this space alive and meaningful.
Here’s to another month of bold expression, thoughtful provocation, and unexpected delight.
I can’t wait to read what’s next.
Warm regards,
Susana
Susana Mayer, PhD
Founder: The Erotic Literary Salon
Email: susanamayer3@gmail.com
Schedule a Consultation: https://susanamayer.com/schedule-an-appointment/
March/April 2025
The Erotic Literary Salon
A Verbal Sanctuary for Sexual Expression
Susana Mayer, PhD
April 2, 2025
Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
For over a decade, the Salon offered a place where people could write and speak honestly—about sex, pleasure, identity, and more. That same spirit continues here, in print.
This month’s newsletter includes optional prompts, selected submissions, a Q&A section, and excerpts from longer works. You’ll also find reflections on language, desire, and the ways censorship continues to shape what we say—and what we silence.
Whether you’ve been with the Salon from the beginning or are just joining in, I’m glad you’re here.
What’s Inside This Month’s Newsletter
Create Freely—A Prompt if You Need It
Write whatever moves you. If you’d like a little inspiration, a prompt is below.
· A Letter to the Crotch – Write a letter to your pussy or cock. Be as bold or tender as you like. What have the two of you been through? What would you say if nothing was off-limits?
· Through the Wall – A voice rises on the other side—half sentences, a giggle, a breathless “yes, right there.” Your character can’t help but listen. Maybe they imagine the rest. Maybe they take notes. What do the overheard words awaken?
· The Forgotten Letter – Tucked inside a book or buried in a drawer, your character finds a letter that was never sent—and everything changes.
Submit at: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Author Submissions: Share Your Work with The Salon
We invite published authors to contribute to The Erotic Literary Salon. Share excerpts from your books or smaller works such as essays, short stories, or poetry. Along with your submission, please include a short bio to introduce yourself to our readers. This is a chance to showcase your voice, connect with a curious and engaged audience, and promote your work.
Submit your work and bio here: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines
Featured Author: Best Selling Author I.J. Miller
SURVIVING THE STORM is I.J. Miller’s eighth book, published this past fall by Amphorae Publishing Group. Miller’s novels have been on bestseller and book club lists. The audio version of WUTHERING NIGHTS, the erotic retelling of Bronte’s Wuthering Heights, was nominated for an Audie award. Miller has appeared in Volumes 12 and 13 of the Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica. Miller has also been a featured reader at the Erotic Literary Salon. Visit ijmiller.com.
Introductory info for SURVIVING THE STORM excerpt
SURVIVING THE STORM is a sexy thriller about three dysfunctional couples working at a Caribbean resort who are desperately trying to navigate their emotional lives while being suspects in the murder of a co-worker. The novel was published in September, 2024 by Amphorae Publishing Group and is set in 1989.
Rob-O is the resort’s waterfront director, Kate the yoga instructor. Kate’s insecure about her flat-chest and is non-orgasmic. Rob-O worries about his small penis. Rob-O dedicates himself to giving Kate her first orgasm and every Wednesday tries something new. This chapter continues to connect them to Alvin, the eventual murder victim, while illuminating their struggles as a couple and the elements that eventually create a loving bond.
Enjoy!
SURVIVING THE STORM BUY LINKS:
Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/p/books/surviving-the-storm-i-j-miller/21170946?ean=9781943075874
Amazon: https://amzn.to/3zRoru2
Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/surviving-the-storm-ij-miller/1144913568
Local book store
Read the full piece: https://susanamayer.com/featured-author/
A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
Exquisite Corpse: A Collective Creation
The sketch above is an Exquisite Corpse drawing from the 1930s—created by Salvador Dalí, Gala Dalí, Valentin Hugo, and André Breton.
This collaborative exercise invites people to contribute without knowing exactly what others have added, resulting in something unexpected, layered, and often beautifully strange.
Now it’s your turn.
Submit up to five evocative words—sensual, strange, playful, poetic. Once enough submissions are gathered, a collaborative poem will be created and shared in a future newsletter.
We’re still a few words short of bringing this to life, so if you’ve been meaning to submit, now’s the time.
Exquisite Corpse Submission: https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse
Adult Sex Education Q&A
Q: I enjoy watching porn, but I’ve never talked about it with anyone. Is that weird? Should I feel ashamed?
A: Not weird at all—and no, you shouldn’t feel ashamed. Pornography is one way people explore fantasies, arousal, and curiosity. What’s important is understanding your relationship to it. Does it enhance your pleasure or connection to your own body? Great. Do you ever feel it replaces intimacy or creates unrealistic expectations? That’s worth reflecting on, perhaps consulting with a sex therapist—but still not shameful.
There’s far too much silence around this topic. Watching porn doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you—it means you’re human. Pleasure doesn’t expire.
Submit your question anonymously: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Read installments here: https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments:
Share your experiences with censorship. visit https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/.
Newsworthy Updates
Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives.
Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy: Satisfaction Levels Compared
A comprehensive study involving nearly 25,000 participants found that individuals in consensually non-monogamous relationships report similar levels of happiness and relationship satisfaction as those in monogamous relationships, challenging traditional assumptions about relationship structures. https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/1077958
“Heteropessimism” on the Rise
A growing number of young women are expressing frustration with heterosexual relationships online, staying with male partners but lowering expectations. The trend has sparked deeper questions about what people want—and settle for—in relationships. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/mar/31/social-media-heteropessimism-young-women
Submit a newsworthy update or suggestion: susanamayer3@gmail.com.
Erotic Literature & Creative Inspirations
Looking for inspiration? Discover erotic literature and creative works that push boundaries and spark curiosity—from classic novels to contemporary internet gems.
This Month’s Pick
“The Building” by Venus
https://www.inkitt.com/stories/erotica/370076
Why explore it:
The Building is a contemporary erotic series that blends explicit scenes with emotional depth and character development. Venus writes with a focus on authenticity, highlighting themes of self-discovery, consent, and evolving relationships. It’s not just about sex—it’s about the human experiences around it.
What makes it different:
Unlike many erotic works that prioritize physical description over substance, The Building invites the reader into a world where intimacy and personal growth are intertwined. It’s raw, real, and refreshingly modern.
Have a favorite to share? Recommend books, essays, internet pieces, or standout works from Substack and Medium.
Title: [Book/Article/Work Name]
Author/Creator: [Author/Creator Name]
Why Explore It? [One-line description]
Curated Links: Discover and Share
Explore our curated list of sex-positive websites and resources that celebrate sexuality, creativity, and open expression. Have a favorite website, Substack, Medium piece, or Bluesky account to recommend? Share it with us!
The Pleasure Project
Website: thepleasureproject.org
Why Explore It?
The Pleasure Project promotes a sex-positive approach to sexual health, emphasizing confidence and safety to enhance sexual enjoyment. Their pleasure-inclusive strategies have been shown to improve sexual health outcomes, including increased condom use.
Center for Positive Sexuality
Website: positivesexuality.org
Why Explore It?
This non-profit organization addresses social issues through sex-positive research and education. They offer lectures, workshops, and publications aimed at fostering understanding and acceptance of diverse sexual expressions.
Submit your suggestions: https://susanamayer.com/curated-links/
Art & Intimacy: Stories Behind Erotic Masterpieces
Each month, we’ll dive into the history of erotic works of art, exploring what made them groundbreaking, controversial, or simply unforgettable. From ancient cave drawings to classic paintings like Manet’s Olympia, this section will highlight how art has navigated the complexities of desire, intimacy, and societal norms.
Spotlight: Le Sommeil by Gustave Courbet
The Painting:
Gustave Courbet’s Le Sommeil (1866), also known as The Sleepers, portrays two nude women entwined in a sensual embrace, asleep on a bed. The scene is intimate, with delicate details like a broken pearl necklace hinting at prior activity.
Why It Was Groundbreaking:
Commissioned by Turkish diplomat Halil Şerif Paşa, Le Sommeil was audacious for its time due to its explicit depiction of a lesbian couple. Unlike mythological or allegorical nudes common in art, Courbet presented a realistic and tender portrayal of same-sex intimacy, challenging 19th-century societal norms.
Controversy and Impact:
Upon its limited exhibition, the painting faced censorship; a display in 1872 even led to a police report. Le Sommeilcontributed to broader discussions on sexuality in art, influencing contemporaries and sparking debates about the representation of eroticism and female relationships.
Legacy:
Today, Le Sommeil resides in Paris’s Petit Palais, celebrated for its boldness and artistry. It stands as a testament to Courbet’s commitment to realism and his willingness to explore themes of desire and intimacy beyond conventional boundaries.
Le Sommeil invites viewers to reflect on the evolving dialogue between art, intimacy, and societal perceptions, embodying the enduring power of art to challenge and enlighten.
Have an artwork to suggest? Whether it’s an ancient fresco or a classic photograph, share your favorite pieces with us!
This section aims to explore how art has always been a mirror to our desires and discomforts, offering insight into the evolving dialogue between intimacy and expression.
How to Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition)
Joining The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition) is quick and easy!
1. Click the Link: Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon (Virtual Edition)
2. Enter your email address to ensure the newsletter is delivered directly to your inbox.
3. That’s it! You’re subscribed and ready to receive regular updates, writing prompts, book excerpts, and more—all at no cost.
Note: You do not need a Substack account to subscribe or access the newsletter. You can subscribe using just your email address, and the newsletter will be delivered directly to your inbox.s
Note: You do not need a Substack account to subscribe or access the newsletter. You can subscribe using just your email address, and the newsletter will be delivered directly to your inbox.
Final Thoughts
Thank you for the continued support and enthusiasm for the virtual Erotic Literary Salon. Every message, submission, and shared link helps this space grow into something truly special. It’s a joy to see how many of you are inspired by the invitation to express yourselves freely and creatively.
If you haven’t participated yet, consider this your gentle nudge—submit a story, a poem, a rant, or even just a few evocative words for the Exquisite Corpse. And if something you’ve read, watched, or listened to made you think or feel differently about sexuality, identity, or intimacy, I’d love to know about it.
This Salon is shaped by you. Your stories, your curiosities, your willingness to explore what often goes unsaid—that’s what keeps this space alive and meaningful.
Here’s to another month of bold expression, thoughtful provocation, and unexpected delight.
I can’t wait to read what’s next.
Warm regards,
Susana
Susana Mayer, PhD
Founder: The Erotic Literary Salon
Email: susanamayer3@gmail.com
Schedule a Consultation: https://susanamayer.com/schedule-an-appointment/
February 2025
The Erotic Literary Salon
A Verbal Sanctuary for Sexual Expression
Susana Mayer, PhD
February 21, 2025
Welcome to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter,
For 12 years, The Erotic Literary Salon provided a sanctuary for creative expression—spanning playful innuendo to raw, explicit works in both fiction and nonfiction. Now, the Salon lives on in digital form, ensuring voices are heard and creativity flows freely, without censorship or shame.
This newsletter is your gateway to that experience, featuring optional writing prompts, selected author submissions, adult Q&A, reflections on the power of words, and serial content—including essays, book excerpts, and timely news. Whether you’re a longtime Salon attendee or discovering it for the first time, welcome—you’re in the right place.
What’s Inside This Month’s Newsletter
Create Freely—A Prompt if You Need It
Write whatever moves you. If you’d like a little inspiration, a prompt is below.
- The Scent of Desire – A particular scent triggers an intense memory of passion, leading your character down an unexpected path.
- The First Sip – The warmth of a morning coffee, the burn of whiskey on the tongue—one drink transports your character back to a moment of intense passion.
- The Artist’s Gaze – Your character becomes the subject of a painter, sculptor, or photographer whose lingering attention stirs something unexpected within them.
Submit at: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Author Submissions: Share Your Work with The Salon
We invite published authors to contribute to The Erotic Literary Salon. Share excerpts from your books or smaller works such as essays, short stories, or poetry. Along with your submission, please include a short bio to introduce yourself to our readers. This is a chance to showcase your voice, connect with a curious and engaged audience, and promote your work.
Submit your work and bio here: https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines
Featured Author: Award-Winning Jeremy Edwards
Jeremy Edwards, an Independent Publisher Book Award winner and longtime friend of The Erotic Literary Salon, is known for his evocative and witty storytelling. With over 150 erotic short stories and the acclaimed novel The Pleasure Dial, Jeremy’s work masterfully blends humor, intimacy, and desire.
Excerpt from Monoculture:
“Last fall there was Maria, a charismatic intellectual whose conversation always made me wish she might invite me to her bedroom, where I could kneel behind her, bring her panties down, and fondle one round buttock (the left one). That, and only that.”
Read the full piece: Monoculture by Jeremy Edwards
Explore more of Jeremy’s work: Jeremy Edwards’ Books
A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
Sketch is an Exquisite Corpse drawing by Salvatore Dali, Gala Dali (his wife), Valentin Hugo and André Breton, circa 1930.
The exquisite corpse is a collaborative creative exercise where participants sequentially add to a drawing or piece of writing without seeing the entirety of what others have created, resulting in a surprising and unified work.
Submit up to five evocative words:
Once enough words have been gathered, a poem will be crafted and posted.
Exquisite Corpse Submission: https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse
Adult Sex Education Q&A
Q: Is it normal for sexual desire to fluctuate over time?
A: Absolutely. Sexual desire naturally ebbs and flows due to factors like stress, health, hormonal changes, emotional connection, and life transitions. If you’ve recently started a new medication, check with your pharmacist, as some medications can have side effects that impact libido. Rather than seeing fluctuations as a problem, consider them an opportunity to explore new ways of experiencing intimacy—whether through self-discovery, communication with a partner, or adjusting to changing needs. If a sudden or prolonged drop in desire concerns you, it may be worth exploring underlying causes with a professional.
Honest, practical answers to anonymous reader questions about sexuality and intimacy.
Submit your question anonymously: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
Read installments here: https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments to follow in future newsletters.
Share your experiences with censorship. visit https://susanamayer.com/censorship-of-sexual-erotic-material/.
Newsworthy Updates
Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives.
Submit a newsworthy update or suggestion: susanamayer3@gmail.com.
Expanded IVF Access:
On February 18, 2025, President Trump signed an executive order to reduce IVF costs, but concrete changes await further legislative action. (NY Post)
Gender-Affirming Care Ban:
Trump’s order banning gender-transition treatments for minors under 19 has disrupted care, though some lawsuits have temporarily blocked it. (New Yorker)
Impact of USAID Funding Freeze:
The administration’s 90-day freeze on USAID funding has led to clinic closures, impacting cervical cancer screenings, HIV treatment, and contraceptive access. (The Guardian)
Judge Blocks Trans Healthcare Ban:
A Maryland judge temporarily halted Trump’s executive order on trans youth healthcare, citing risks to essential medical services. (Them)
Scientific Research Concerns:
New policies freezing research funds and halting communications are disrupting health and behavior studies, raising fears of lasting damage. (The Atlantic)
Erotic Literature & Creative Inspirations
Looking for inspiration? Discover erotic literature and creative works that push boundaries and spark curiosity—from classic novels to contemporary internet gems.
Title: [Book/Article/Work Name]
Author/Creator: [Author/Creator Name]
Why Explore It? [One-line description]
This Month’s Pick
Title: Shortsmut Stories
Author/Creator: Various Authors on Wattpad
Why It Stands Out: A diverse collection of short erotic tales catering to various tastes and fantasies.
Read it here
Have a favorite to share? Recommend books, essays, internet pieces, or standout works from Substack and Medium!
Curated Links: Discover and Share
Explore our curated list of sex-positive websites and resources that celebrate sexuality, creativity, and open expression. Have a favorite website, Substack, Medium piece, or Bluesky account to recommend? Share it with us!
Submit your suggestions: https://susanamayer.com/curated-links/
Scarleteen (scarleteen.com)
💬 Why Explore It? Scarleteen offers inclusive, sex-positive education for teens and young adults, emphasizing healthy relationships, consent, and self-discovery. Interesting fact: Scarleteen wrote a brief piece introducing The Erotic Literary Salon before its very first event in 2008!
The Pleasure Mechanics (pleasuremechanics.com)
💬 Why Explore It? This site features podcasts, courses, and articles that promote pleasure-based, shame-free sexuality education for all genders and orientations.
Oh Joy Sex Toy (ohjoysextoy.com)
💬 Why Explore It? A playful, informative webcomic that reviews sex toys, explores sexual health topics, and promotes body positivity and open-mindednesss.
Art & Intimacy: Stories Behind Erotic Masterpieces
Each month, we’ll dive into the history of erotic works of art, exploring what made them groundbreaking, controversial, or simply unforgettable. From ancient cave drawings to classic paintings like Manet’s Olympia, this section will highlight how art has navigated the complexities of desire, intimacy, and societal norms.
Spotlight: Manet’s Olympia
In 1863, Olympia sparked outrage—not because of nudity, which was common in art, but because of her bold, direct gaze. Unlike mythological depictions of Venus, Olympia was a real woman, a courtesan, who met the viewer’s eyes with unapologetic confidence. Her presence challenged comfort zones and confronted the viewer’s gaze head-on.
Have an artwork to suggest? Whether it’s an ancient fresco or a classic photograph, share your favorite pieces with us!
This section aims to explore how art has always been a mirror to our desires and discomforts, offering insight into the evolving dialogue between intimacy and expression.
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Final Thoughts
Thank you to everyone who has reached out with kind words about the new virtual Erotic Literary Salon. It’s wonderful to hear how much this space means to you—but to keep the Salon vibrant, we need your voices!
Whether it’s submitting a story, sharing just five words for the Exquisite Corpse, or recommending links to sex-positive articles and creative works, your participation makes all the difference. Let’s keep this a place where creativity thrives, boundaries stretched, and words find the freedom they deserve.
I can’t wait to see what you share!
Thank you for joining me on this exciting new adventure. I’m thrilled to see what we’ll create together!
Warm regards,
Susana
Susana Mayer, PhD
Founder: The Erotic Literary Salon
Email: susanamayer3@gmail.com
Schedule a Consultation: https://susanamayer.com/schedule-an-appointment/
January 2025
What’s Inside the Monthly Newsletter
Note: For now, it will be an abbreviated version.
- ELS: A Writing Prompt to Ignite Your Creativity
- The Unexpected Encounter: Write about a chance discovery of a mysterious place that awakens your character’s senses, leading to an intimate connection with a stranger, a memory, or even the space itself.
- The Body as a Map: Explore the body as a map of emotions and memories, where each touch, scar, or freckle reveals hidden stories of desire, healing, or self-discovery.
- A Letter They’ll Never Read: Write an intimate letter to someone unreachable—be it a forbidden love, a lost partner, or yourself—filled with raw desire, confessions, or a single unforgettable moment.
- visit https://susanamayer.com/submission-guidelines/
Sketch is an Exquisite Corpse drawing by Salvatore Dali, Gala Dali (his wife), Valentin Hugo and André Breton, circa 1930.
- A Salon Favorite: The Exquisite Corpse
- The exquisite corpse is a collaborative creative exercise where participants sequentially add to a drawing or piece of writing, each contributing without seeing the entirety of what others have created, resulting in a surprising and unified work.
- A favorite from the in-person Salon, The Exquisite Corpse is a collaborative poetry activity where attendees submit single evocative words. These words will be woven into a poem to be shared in a future newsletter. Submissions may range from innuendo to over-the-top explicit.
- Submit up to five words at https://www.susanamayer.com/exquisite-corpse.
- Adult Sex Education Q&A
- Honest, practical answers to anonymous reader questions about sexuality and intimacy. To submit your questions anonymously.
- visit: https://susanamayer.com/adult-sex-ed-q-a/
- Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?
- Serialized installments from my revised book, Does Sex Have an Expiration Date? will follow in future newsletters. Stay tuned!
- visit https://susanamayer.com/book-installment/
- Purchase Does Sex Have an Expiration Date?https://www.amazon.com/Does-Sex-Have-Expiration-Date/dp/1733994815
- Censorship of Sexual and Erotic Material
- Explore how censorship impacts sexual shame. Follow the evolution of this essay as it takes shape, with serialized installments to follow in future newsletters. Share your experiences with censorship.
- Newsworthy Updates
- Curated news and research on sexuality and relationships. Your input is welcome to help expand our perspectives. Selected contributions will be featured in the newsletter.
- Submit suggestions to susanamayer3@gmail.com.
- Links
How to Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon Newsletter (Virtual Edition)
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- Click the Link: Subscribe to The Erotic Literary Salon (Virtual Edition)
- Enter your email address to ensure the newsletter is delivered directly to your inbox.
- That’s it! You’re subscribed and ready to receive regular updates, writing prompts, book excerpts, and more—all at no cost.
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